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Dienstag, 6. August 2024

Jordan Peterson über das Erwachsen werden

Und gleich weiter mit noch mehr Lebensweisheiten:

People grow up when they get married.

It is probably better to get married when you are young because then you grow up. And then what else matures people? I have met very few people who have fully matured who do not have children. I think there is a reason for that, a real technical reason. You are not mature until someone else matters more than you—period. Maybe that will be your wife or your husband, but probably not. They might matter as much as you, and maybe that is the right amount. But when you have children, they matter more than you, unless there is something seriously wrong with you.

Very few parents, if push came to shove, would not die for their children. As soon as someone else matters more than you do in some fundamental sense, you have taken another step toward a true, mature responsibility. I do not see that you can do that without necessity, and there is nothing that screams necessity more than an infant.

Quelle: Twitter-Post von jordanbpeterson

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Dienstag, 6. August 2024

Don Miguel Ruiz‘ „Four Agreements“

Auf Twitter spült es mir immer mehr Lebensweisheiten in die Timeline. Hier die vier Ratschläge eines mir unbekannten Don Miguel Ruiz (Hervorhebungen meinerseits):

Be Impeccable with Your Word

Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

Don’t Take Anything Personally

Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.

Don’t Make Assumptions

Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

Always Do Your Best

Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.

Via: Twitter-Post von readswithravi (Direktlink auf die Grafik)

Spannend, und lehrreich. Insbesondere dass man nichts (!) persönlich nehmen soll — daran muss ich arbeiten. Und dass ich klar sage, was ich (wirklich) möchte.

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